There are over 17,000 forms on the VA website and while I know the ones I need are there, I'm a bit daunted.
Evidentally, there's a supplemental payment for eligible veterans and their surviving spouses (Roach) to help with the increased rent one pays to move from the independent apartment or house to the ALF. The "helpful" for-profit companies offer to facilitate this, but I'm looking to see if I can't manage it myself.
So. Day one:
Daddy's discharge papers. Done
More as it happens...or doesn't.